Today is mine and Neil's Fourth Year Anniversary! I have to say it's been the best four years of my life. Everyone always told us that the first year would be the hardest but we never went through any of that. We've always just got along so great. It's been amazing. We became best friends while we were dating and we've only gotten closer. We love to do everything together! Neil you are an incredible husband and dad and I can't imagine life without you. I'll bare you the embarassement and save the rest of my cheesiness for later. I know how much you love this stuff. Anyway, here is a little slide show of our wedding day and I've included some pix of us dating to show how young we were! The song playing "I Cross My Heart" By George Strait is our song. I even had I Cross My Heart engraved in Neil's wedding ring, but it was lost when we went canoeing down the Snake River a few years ago.
I also thought I'd post our story of how we met seeing that I always love to hear everyone's "story."
Neil and I met at ward prayer in our student ward in Salt Lake Sept. of 2003. He asked me out on a date after a couple of weeks of seeing me there. Our first date was..... well let's put it this way..... not great. I loved talking with Neil but just didn't think we had a connection and honestly I wasn't looking for anything at the time. So at the doorstep Neil says "this was fun we should do it again," and I said "yeah we should." And he said "Are you sure, you seem a little hesitant?" (I didn't know that this was a joke that Neil played on most of his dates to lighten things up but I took him serious.) So I said " Well, to be honest with you I'm not really looking for a relationship right now. I just broke up with someone and I have a missionary that I really want to wait for. I don't like playing with people's hearts so I just want to be upfront with you." So needless to say that about killed that. I would see Neil at church every now and again and he was always way nice but he never asked me out again. (Can you blame him??) I was on the activity commitee and so I had to be at every activity and Neil was very dedicated to making sure he made it to all the ward activities. (I had no idea it was because I was there) So we got talking at a ward activity and he asked me if I wanted to go rollerblading with him and his buddy. I can't really pass up a chance to go rollerblading so I said yes, but that I had to go study right after. So we went blading and had a blast. We had so much fun that I refused to go study and spent the rest of the evening with him and his buddy going to dinner and to a movie. We laughed so hard that night at practically everything and still have quite a few inside jokes just from that night. I had so much fun with him!! Anyway, after that night I STILL wasn't interested, but was so dissapointed that he didn't call me all week! So a week or so went by and then my friend Emily called me up one Sunday night and said that Neil was going to pick us up for ward prayer. So Neil came and picked me up and as we were driving to Emily's I looked over at Neil and something just hit me inside. I hadn't felt anything like that before. It wasn't like I'm going to marry him, but it was something. So all of the sudden I realized I was really liking this guy. And I knew that he wasn't going to ask me out again after what I did to him on our first date so I planned a date with all of my friends and called Neil up and made it sound like all my friends were going on a group date and that I needed a date and asked if he wanted to go. Once again we had a blast that night. It didn't matter what we were doing we just had SO much fun together. I could completely be myself with him and just felt so comfortable. So at the end of that date Neil asked me out for the next night to go on a group date with his family (that was extremely intimidating) but it turned out great. I think in that 1 week we went on 5 dates and basically we've been together ever since. He proposed 7 months later up at Desolation Lake and we were married four months later in the Salt Lake Temple. I'm so grateful that Neil gave me that second chance. Love ya babe!